Quote of the Day

"Treat people the way you would want to be treated"

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Tips for Home if your child is being bullied

1.Teach self-control through discipline.
2.Communicate a zero tolerance of mistreatment of others by consistently applying negative consequences for bullying behavior.
3.Teach your child that mistreatment and kindness are powerful – creating memories.
4. Hold family meetings to teach empathy, sensitivity and values.
5.Teach child to control his/her anger.
6.Discuss bullying scenes you watch on television or in movies.

These are all quick simple topics you can discuss with your child anywhere! Make sure they know that Bullying is not okay!

Celebrities

Here are a list of celebrities that where bullied during their time at school but pushed through and became famous
1. Chris Rock
2. Michael Phelps
3. Kate Winslet
4. Miley Cyrus
5. Prince Henry
6. Bill Clinton
7. Emma Watson
8. Christinia Aguilara
9. Jessica Alba
10. Tom Cruise

.....This is just a small list

small story

During one of my visits to a elementary school I over heard one of the students explain to her teacher how she does not want to ride the bus anymore. The teacher asked her why and she shyed away at first but the teacher brought her outside of class to talk to her. The little 3rd grade, who is sweet as can be, told her teacher that 1st graders where tormenting her on the bus. They where calling her "bad" names, telling her she looks like a baby and she should not be in school. The teacher had her fill out a sheet that explains her side of the story and give it to the Principal so he can review it. Then he will talk to the other children and get their side of the story and that is that.

I thought about that situation and how it was handled and you know it is just not fair. The poor girl still has to go on the bus that day and now they other children will know she tattled. I just think that more options need to be available for children. The teacher did e-mail the girls mother and told her what is happening on the bus, but did this really solve the problem? I do not think so.